Soft, tousled & touchable hair screams Romance. Try a big barrel curl-n-iron or hot rollers and finger through to separate pieces...and skip the hair spray (his fingers getting stuck in your hair is not sexy). If you need extra body, apply a volumizing (non sticky) mouse to your roots when hair is wet and blow dry with a round brush. If your hair is already wavy/curly and your would rather more curl, then condition!! & use a diffuser on your blow dryer while holding in sections for 8 second on each section until hair is dry. You can use a 1"-2" curl-n-iron to finish off pieces that don't curl just like you want. Finish with a shine serum to smooth down fly-a-ways and add shine to your locks. Also, note that hair that is not squeaky clean will work better for you...so just wash the day before and take washing your hair off your list of things to do before the big date.